Some advice I gave my daughter: 1. If he won't work, leave, and don't go back. 2. If he hits you, leave and don't go back. If he threatens you with violence, be aware, the real thing is just around the corner. Pack your stuff and plan your exit. 3. sexual infidelity, leave and don't go back. 4. verbal abuse...must stop, but give him a chance or two. 5. Alcohol and drugs, absolutely must be in moderation. Give him a chance or two to straighten up. A dope head or a drunkard will never be able to provide you and your children with more than a marginal standard of living. My son's fiance' stood him up at the altar. My advice was, "run, don't walk" My children are exceptional individuals, and life is too short and precious to waste with someone who doesn't appreciate you. Everything else, you must consider before the commitment. Once you commit to a husband or wife, don't be leaving them because of health of poverty...This would indicate a flaw in YOUR character. I can't, and won't help you choose a mate. You must do this yourself. Before making a commitment, observe their family...for that is the exact image of the life you will share. If they have no family...run, don't walk.


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